Dating a quiet guy
As a result, dating in Japan is usually quite easy for men.At least getting one woman after another into your bed, is really easy, even if you’re quite ugly!Although they live in Japan and sometimes even have children together who also speak Japanese, the foreign guys don’t / can’t speak Japanese.I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.Of course, you get a lot of attention and there’s all this staring, but it’s not because anybody is flirting with you … It might be a different story in bigger cities such as Tokyo and Osaka with a more international community, but in smaller cities and in the countryside with more traditional ideals it can be very difficult for foreign women.I personally know a few couples where either the man or the woman is foreign and I noticed quite a lot of differences in the kind of relationship they have.The complete opposite is the case for (Western) foreign women in Japan.
In relationships where the man is foreign I noticed that they mostly speak his native language.A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.For some reason (maybe through the consumption of too many Hollywood movies) Japanese women think that foreign men are like that!Japanese men seem to expect certain things from a woman.
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
For some reason Japanese women seem to find even ugly foreign guys attractive …..