Not dating men with children
doesn't matter that you don't hide them or who they came from, what matters is there simply are people out there who don't want to deal with someone who has kids.
You specifically ask why "young women" run away ... At my age, I would expect that anyone I'd meet would. I think they turn and run because at 23 you have already had (at least) one relationship where you chose to bring kids into it.
At 23 I would not have dated a guy with two kids and two baby mamas. At that age I had no desire to deal with baby mamas and insta-mommy bs.
I've dealt with both guys who drag their kids out on dates at all hours, and dads who spend most of the weekend they have their kids trying to find ways to get away from them. Because at this time in my life I am not wanting to be a potential step-parent.Just like not every man is interested in dating a woman with kids. I choose to not date men with kids b/c I'd really rather not share the attention and focus with someone's kids.Your boys may be stunning to you, but that doesn't mean everyone else has to think they're the greatest thing around ...Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
I have a child, but I have to say, I would be hesitant to date a guy who had 2 children by 2 different women.